Nightly Routine
A trauma-informed educational wellness worksheet for reflection, choice, self-care, and support.

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A printable reflection and practice resource Created by Michelle D. Elder, MSW, LMHC. This worksheet is a free educational wellness resource from My Reflective Collective.
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Here's a science-backed, gentle but structured nightly and morning routine to help you fall asleep by
9:30
PM
and wake up feeling more refreshed.
This
will support healthy circadian rhythms, reduce stress, and help with habit formation over time.
- Nightly Routine (Start at 7:30 PM)
Goal: Prepare your body and brain for sleep by winding down gradually.
- 7:30 PM - Wind Down & Prep
l Dim the lights. l Turn off stimulating devices or use blue light filters (Night Shift, f.lux, etc.). l Prepare for the next day (clothes, meals, to-do list) to reduce mental clutter. l Take your evening medication with a light snack if needed.
- 8:00 PM - Unplug & Decompress
l No phone or screens (or only use calming music or sleep apps).
l Try one of the following:
- Gentle yoga or stretching (10 mins) 
- Journaling (gratitude list or brain dump) 
- Reading a non-stimulating book 
- Coloring or knitting 
- Warm shower or bath (promotes melatonin release)
- 8:30 PM - Sleep Signal Ritual
l Herbal tea (e.g., chamomile, lemon balm, or sleepy-time blends) l Skincare or lotion routine l Use calming scents (lavender, cedarwood, etc.) l Practice a breathing technique (e.g., 4-7-8 or box breathing) l Listen to calming music, white noise, or nature sounds
- 9:00 PM - In Bed, Lights Off
l No screens. Just you and stillness. l Optional: guided sleep meditation, body scan, or progressive muscle relaxation. l If thoughts come up, whisper to yourself: "It's okay to rest now. I'll handle that tomorrow."
- Morning Routine (Wake up ~5:30-6:00 AM)
Goal: Wake up with purpose, reorient gently, and activate natural energy.
- Upon Waking
l Open the curtains or turn on a bright, warm light (or use a light therapy box). l Get out of bed within 10 minutes.
l Say an affirmation or mantra:
"Today is a fresh start.
I
am grounded and
ready."
- 6:00 AM - Activate & Hydrate
l Drink a full glass of water with lemon or electrolytes. l Quick hygiene routine (face splash, brush teeth). l Optional: invigorating shower or just a cold splash to the face.
- 6:15 AM - Ground & Focus
l Stretch or do light movement (5-10 mins) l Try a 5-minute meditation or morning journaling (e.g., "3 things I'm looking forward to")
- 6:30 AM - Fuel Up
l Eat a protein-rich breakfast (eggs, smoothie, oatmeal with nuts). l Take your morning medication and/or supplements.
- Tips for Success:
l Consistency is key -try to stick to the same times even on weekends.
l Use phone alarms labeled with friendly messages:
- "Time to Wind Down 
- " at 7:30 PM 
- "Tea & Chill 
- " at 8:30 PM 
- "Bedtime, Gorgeous 
- " at 9:00 PM l Keep your bedroom cool, dark, and quiet. l If you can't sleep after 20 minutes, do something calming outside the bed (not screens). danger or medical emergency. Call or text 988 in the U.S. or Canada for suicide or mental health crisis
support. Copyright Michelle D. Elder,
MSW, LMHC. My Reflective Collective.
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